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It always baffles us that in the UK ,you have the common sense to keep your cards close to your chest!! So why do people feel that when they are on a forum they feel the need to spill the beans? "
I live on my own in "
and my partner is not here "
nothing like letting everybody know you are on your own eh? and vunerable!! In the UK you try your hardest to let people think you are at home!! Anybody can look on the internet or pretend to be someone they are not!! We all teach our kids about "
carefull who you talk to on the web"
does that apply to us adults? Just a thought

Totally agree Chris in fact this is what the OP is talking about saying to much and I think if your not in control then you can only blame yourself for giving that control to others so lets get this back on topic and talk about what we would or wouldn't tell our neighbor's I think no matter who you are or where you are there are somethings you wouldn't shouldn't tell others no matter how close you feel but as FlorryB says you do have to have some trust but I do believe that it should be limited and if you don't limit it then its no good crying about it once the whole world gets to know your inner most secrets

Mmmmmmmmm I thought this would get to be a bit controversial, but it has to be said that whatever you tell others or what trust you place in them if it all goes wrong then you can only blame it on bad judgement for me I tell others nothing unless I've known them for 20 years or so