I do not call myself a vegetarian, just someone who doesn't eat meat or meat products. I am not super strict about cheese, and will eat fish. Having worked on farms, not necessarily with farm animals, and seen even good farmers holding animals in less than ideal conditions, I just don't want to eat it. I am not a fanatical veggie, and if more animals had been kept as naturally as commercially possible (yes, I know it's expensive) I may still be a meat eater. But after thirty years there is no going back for me now. Mr Eq likes his meat, but I am fussy what I buy, or as fussy as you can be in a major supermarket. I know I should use local butchers, but as I work in a supermarket and get a good discount that would be daft. I can buy free range pork and chickens, not ideal but there we are. Mr Eq is confident he will be able to eat home grown chicken, though new EU regulations say you have to have a certificate of competence to kill a chicken, or any animal. He is no stranger to killing things to feed or for humane reasons. And being an ex caterer I am no stranger to cooking meat.
And I always feed visitors what I think they will appreciate, even though it means doing different for me, I'm used to it.
Mrs Eq