First topic message reminder :

I am new to this site but wanted to say how nice it is to find a BG forum that has a positive membership. Other popular forums seem full of 'lets knock em all' posts where nobody has a good word to say about anyone or anything.

Nothing seems to bring people together like unhappiness. Reading posts on other sites there seems to be nothing but doom and gloom. As soon as a thread starts that has something positive to say about someone or something then the negative comments come thick and fast. Many seem to be without foundation and people are attacked without any real recourse.

"
There is evidence that group cohesiveness may be related to negative feelings about others,"
Tom Buchanan, a psychologist at the University of Westminster in London, told New Scientist. I couldn't agree more and I applaud members on this forum for taking a more positive stance with their posts.

If you are taking part in things like this it is not harmless fun. You are being a cyberbully in my opinion. You also benefit from total anonymity in most cases...

Anyway thats my Monday moan done and dusted. I hope to use this forum to make positive contributions about life in Bulgaria.

Rakia anyone

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As many of you will know the history of Villa Lorna/Walnut House and the ongoing difficulties we have been subjected to as a result of cyber crime. It has resulted in us being deleted off various Holiday letting sites (under Police Investigation) for reasons best known to themselves, as they chose to believe alias emails and not us an honest reputable family
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Nice offer willowsend but lets make sure this topic doesn't stray

Ive to been on the receiving end of cyber bullies ...well they tried to , please contact me willow send &
ile list you freely on my website &
if you get a confirmed booking just give a donation to Bernie for the charity .
Pat.

handyman wrote:

Ive to been on the receiving end of cyber bullies ...well they tried to , please contact me willow send &
ile list you freely on my website &
if you get a confirmed booking just give a donation to Bernie for the charity .
Pat.

Nice one Pat

handyman wrote:

Ive to been on the receiving end of cyber bullies ...well they tried to , please contact me willow send &
ile list you freely on my website &
if you get a confirmed booking just give a donation to Bernie for the charity .
Pat.

:Thank you:That sounds like an excellent idea to me. Let's go for it
ATB
Bryan

willowsend wrote:

handyman wrote:

Ive to been on the receiving end of cyber bullies ...well they tried to , please contact me willow send &
ile list you freely on my website &
if you get a confirmed booking just give a donation to Bernie for the charity .
Pat.

:Thank you:That sounds like an excellent idea to me. Let's go for it
ATB
Bryan

After a bit off a problem with your link willosend ive finaly managed to sort it out , your listed on our friends page.



ATB .
Pat.

handyman wrote:

willowsend wrote:

handyman wrote:

Ive to been on the receiving end of cyber bullies ...well they tried to , please contact me willow send &
ile list you freely on my website &
if you get a confirmed booking just give a donation to Bernie for the charity .
Pat.

:Thank you:That sounds like an excellent idea to me. Let's go for it
ATB
Bryan

After a bit off a problem with your link willosend ive finaly managed to sort it out , your listed on our friends page.



ATB .
Pat.

Fantastic Pat

oldun wrote:

I also believe in Karma but just sometimes these bullies can really get to you and there is really nothing more you can do except leave which seems very unfair but thats the best way. I have heard from someone that my particular bully has more or less left the forums that I was on but pops up now and again probably just to see if I am still around and will make the mistake of responding. Tempting but no! I cannot speak face to face because then they will know that I have been upset - result for them.
In my case, my suspicions were confirmed when a private message from a Moderator asked if I knew the name of this person! I did, and they were banned before any post was allowed to go online. It was very well-spotted by Admin on that forum and although I never saw the offending post, it must have been pretty obvious it was of malcontent towards me.

I'm glad you stuck it out oldun because the forums need more people like you to stand up and be counted I applaud your courage in all you have suffered and your still here to tell the story

Willowsend said

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Hi Rakiaplease
I dont want to drag my problems onto this forum anymore regarding Cyberbullies, Trolls, so I am not going to post in answer to this topic, except to ask you that if you have got time to sit down with a coffee for half an hour then please click on the link and you will get a good insight into what Oldun and I have been subjected to
viewtopic.php?f=46&
t=5398

I have indeed had a look at some of comments made. If these comments are made without foundation on a public forum you have recourse against the forum owners. It might be worth you emplying a lawyer to contact them with the threat of legal action if they are not removed?
The consenus on here supported you but I can imagine that some sites just let it run and run.

It seems another thread has started on this forum about pretty much the same subject. It goes to show this type of behaviour is more widespead than you may think.

I hope you have been able to move on and put this behind you.