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GinaA Senior user
Posts : 176 Join date : 2009-11-15
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oldun Super user
Posts : 1275 Join date : 2009-09-19
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Thu Mar 15, 2012 4:13 pm | |
| How's it going Bryan? I hope Rakiaplease will read your link to this topic because it says it all about how upsetting this kind of thing is and how impossible it is to stop it. It beggars belief that anyone could spend time on a computer posting things which many might think is the truth but is really a pack of vicious lies. I think Rakiaplease has a good understanding of this subject and its pleasing that he has aired it. Not everything on the internet is true or helpful and unfortunately forums and social sites can be dangerous places for many reasons which is a great shame because many get pleasure from interacting with people in cyberspace and making friends there. |
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willowsend Mega user
Posts : 2271 Join date : 2009-11-10 Age : 84 Location : Dobrich
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Thu Mar 15, 2012 4:32 pm | |
| - oldun wrote:
- How's it going Bryan? I hope Rakiaplease will read your link to this topic because it says it all about how upsetting this kind of thing is and how impossible it is to stop it. It beggars belief that anyone could spend time on a computer posting things which many might think is the truth but is really a pack of vicious lies. I think Rakiaplease has a good understanding of this subject and its pleasing that he has aired it. Not everything on the internet is true or helpful and unfortunately forums and social sites can be dangerous places for many reasons which is a great shame because many get pleasure from interacting with people in cyberspace and making friends there.
I have sent you a pm oldun |
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willowsend Mega user
Posts : 2271 Join date : 2009-11-10 Age : 84 Location : Dobrich
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Mon Aug 27, 2012 9:54 pm | |
| The Original post
How can we as a forum HELP!!
Postby sallyann ยป 28 Dec 2011 22:46 How can we as a forum stop Bryan Talbot and his family from having to suffer the postings all over the internet which are completely unfounded and untrue let alone disgusting. I myself have tried to contact the site owners in question but they won't even reply.
This is the latest email I have received from supposedly Natalyia Tasovo believed to be his partner
Bryan Talbot is scheduled to have a fatal car accident in the near future. It is well known that he drives inebriated both in the UK and Bulgaria. A heavy vehicle will strike his car on the RH side with enough force to kill him. This has been paid for both in the UK and Bulgaria, whichever turns out to be most convenient for the hired murderers
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sallyann Super user
Posts : 821 Join date : 2010-02-15
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Mon Aug 27, 2012 9:59 pm | |
| We could all add our name to a petition to stop this sort of thing happening or better still we could all add our name to stop this from happening to Brian once and for all so long as the admin have no objection. |
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Andy Super user
Posts : 555 Join date : 2010-02-11
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:26 pm | |
| I am more than happy to help stop Internet abuse and I think all of us should add our name to try and stop it! Just because we may not yet??? be a victim doesn't mean we have to shy away from it so I to would urge all the members on here to support what it is that Sally is asking. |
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Admin Administrator
Posts : 6136 Join date : 2009-08-15
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Tue Aug 28, 2012 1:19 am | |
| Perhaps those that wish to support Bryan in this way would be better to pm Sallyann for the sake of your own safety. |
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LisA Super user
Posts : 391 Join date : 2010-10-17
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Tue Aug 28, 2012 8:44 am | |
| About time something like this took place well thought of sally. |
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fruitlover Senior user
Posts : 203 Join date : 2011-02-02
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Tue Sep 04, 2012 9:49 am | |
| I wish we could help, but having little experience in these things my suggestions may be unworkable or inadvisable or both, for which I appologise in advance. But how would it be, if we all posted on these sites, saying how sorry we are that (the perpetrator's) life is so sad and unhappy that he feels a need to stoop so low as to post garbage which cannot help anyone, especially not himself. We could say we wish for him that his life improves and that he gets better from what's ailing him, enough to start discovering the true pleasure and enjoyment of life that being honest and truthful brings. We could say we don't just want for him to stop, but we want him to lose the need for it, to find out how much better and more enjoyable life is when you make friends not enemies, and create good things in your life to look forward to. Surely, if many people posted in their own words along these lines, after every negative post of his, the sheer overwhelming amount of disbelief in his lies and goodwill for the victim would cancel out the impact of the nasty stuff? If we were careful always to be only polite, regretful, well-wishing, there would be nothing to object to in any believable way, i.e. nothing concrete for him to retaliate to and sheer numbers could make that difficult anyway? If this is not a practical suggestion or would result in worse retaliation for Brian, then ignore it, I was just responding to the original request How can we HELP, and hoping there might be a way. |
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oldun Super user
Posts : 1275 Join date : 2009-09-19
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Tue Sep 04, 2012 2:16 pm | |
| Fruitlover I respect your response naive as it is, but this situation has been going on for years and I am afraid your lovely and kind response would not penetrate this guy's brain. He has made death threats via internet and phone calls and I am afraid that in life, people like this would just laugh at such a response. If only life were that simplistic. |
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Blink Super user
Posts : 909 Join date : 2010-02-11
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Tue Sep 04, 2012 8:19 pm | |
| - oldun wrote:
- Fruitlover I respect your response naive as it is, but this situation has been going on for years and I am afraid your lovely and kind response would not penetrate this guy's brain. He has made death threats via internet and phone calls and I am afraid that in life, people like this would just laugh at such a response. If only life were that simplistic.
Absolutely right oldun if only all people would look at life in this way then it would be utopia but it's not going to happen and with this particular perpetrator there isn't a fix that would work unless he was an animal and a vet was handy. |
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GinaA Senior user
Posts : 176 Join date : 2009-11-15
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meandmine Super user
Posts : 613 Join date : 2009-09-09
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Wed Sep 05, 2012 1:31 pm | |
| It is no longer acceptable to bury our heads in the sand or turn a blind eye. By ignoring or colluding we are condoning bullying. We do not want to bully the bully, but bullies must learn to accept personal responsibility for the consequences of their behavior. It is not easy to challenge bullying , but it is essential that we do. Where bullying is concerned, knowledge is power – you have to recognise bullying behavior before you can tackle it. |
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willowsend Mega user
Posts : 2271 Join date : 2009-11-10 Age : 84 Location : Dobrich
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Sat Dec 22, 2012 7:56 pm | |
| I think I have got the first of my Christmas presents It's taken 18 months of fighting my corner but we are now re-listed and justice has been done :Thank you:To all members who have follow our story and continued to support us. If any member knows or has any family and friends that might like to sample a bit of Bulgarian sunshine and culture, I would be very grateful if you could pass on the fact that it is available for bookings As an incentive anybody who books a two week holiday during next July. Aug and Sept I will supply a hire car completely FREE of charge for the first week This is the message I received today Your property advert number ******* is now live on HomeAway.co.uk Dear ************ Your property advert ******* is now live on HomeAway.co.uk and our international sites. Please check your advert and send yourself a test enquiry. You can update your advert at any time by logging into your account. |
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varnagirl Super user
Posts : 1196 Join date : 2009-10-24
| Subject: Re: How can we as a forum HELP!! Sat Dec 22, 2012 8:11 pm | |
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